LGBTQ+ Belgian Experience
When I studied in Brussels, Belgium as a lesbian, I had no idea what to expect. Everything I knew came from social media or people who studied abroad before. I heard that most places in Europe were progressive, but the culture was not the same. I was worried about going blind into this new atmosphere, but I was pleasantly surprised.
When I decided to live with a host family, I was concerned about their values and that they wouldn’t accept me. According to research beforehand, I learned that Belgium was predominantly Catholic. This contributed to my worries even more. On the contrary, they were more welcoming than I could have ever imagined. Before arriving in Belgium, I was able to communicate with my host family. I was able to inform them I was a member of the LGBTQ+ community. When I arrived, they assured me that they were supporters and family members of people who identify as LGBTQ+. They also gave resources and tips on places to go for LGBTQ+ safe spaces. If you’re planning on living with a host family, I would recommend communicating to them ahead of time that you’re LGBTQ+, so you know if they’re a right fit for you.
Not only was my host family accepting, but I also felt the atmosphere of Belgium was accepting. There was an abundance of events, bars, and even bookstores that were targeted towards queer people. Downtown Brussels had some of the best spots. I went to a lesbian club night at one of the local bars. Before people entered, they made sure to tell every group that it was a safe space for queer people and no acts against them would be tolerated at all. I went to the best drag show I’d ever been to in my life. The hardest part was trying to figure out which LGBTQ+ bar to go to.
Overall, my experience as a lesbian was very positive. It was very easy to find other people who identified the same as me. Being LGBTQ+ just felt normal. It didn’t feel like I had to explain myself or be embarrassed. It was far different than what I’ve experienced living in Kansas. For anyone who identifies as LGBTQ+ traveling to Belgium, do not be afraid.
